The Birthday Weekend when I Took off my Pants

First of all, THANK YOU so much for being so so kind in wishing me a happy birthday on Saturday. It was indeed a very happy birthday. I enjoyed myself very much all weekend. There was a minor incident on Saturday when I went to get my hair all done up–you know to keep the tradition of always cutting my hair for my birthday–when the stylist cut my hair shorter than I had hoped for and styled it in a way that made me look as if I was turning… older! Like, a lot older. Other than that, Saturday was a day in January like no other day in January ever was. It was sunny and somewhere in the high 50s. Normally, January is a gray month, often with frigid temperatures and little character for activities. But not Saturday the 7th, the world granted me a gorgeous day in my January and for that I’m quite grateful.

The day ended with bowling. Two teams of guys Vs. girls where we lost count of what was happening and for me, I kept wondering why my ball kept on going to the left. All the time. No matter where I stood to bowl. Bowling is just one of those things that’s not going to go on my list of “Things I’m good at” but I enjoyed it very much either way.

Yesterday was really awesome too. Some time last week Ariel emailed me this link with a Subject line of “We’re Doing This” (with lots of exclamation points). At first, my initial thought was “no thanks!” There was no way I was going to take off my pants in NY, on a subway, in January, especially with the conditions of my shorty legs. But then, Ariel is just one of those guys who gets so excited about things as silly as this and well… it is kind of contagious and I ended up agreeing. And I’m so glad I did. It was the silliest thing I have ever done, completely hilarious and I can’t wait to do something like that again. I wish I had taken my camera, but those who were participating weren’t allowed to take photos. We did sneaked in some iPhone photos, because, one just couldn’t help it! The look on people’s faces was priceless.

There were people who didn’t find the prank very funny. There was a lady right in front of me that kept saying THERE ARE KIDS HERE! I thought, for sure, she was going to yell at me once my turn came, but there were so many people participating that it was just too hard to not find it amusing. There was even a lady sitting right next to Ariel who kept saying she couldn’t believe what was happening, that she didn’t understand. All the while Ariel kept agreeing and shaking his head, once his turn came up to de-pants though, the lady was in so much shock that she kept yelling I KNEW HE WAS IN IT, I KNEW IT! Best moment ever!

The rest of the train ride was as hilarious and so many people were in it. I highly suggest for you to participate whenever this comes up again. You may find it silly and might not get the concept, but I guarantee that at the end of the day you’ll be glad you tried something out of the ordinary. Life should be full of silly, hilarious and unordinary moments.

Most certainly a very memorable (and pant-less) birthday weekend! xoxox–Julia

UPDATE: The video of this year’s NPSR is out and Ariel is there eating strawberries:)

New Year So Far

So far so good! I love this year already. I have started very motivated with no resolutions made just keep telling myself: this is year will be about “takin’ care of business!” And I’m sticking with that one. During dinner the other night Ariel and I started discussing a few personal goals that we really want to achieve and maintain. One of them is to really take care of our health. We discussed me joining the gym… again. Like every new year I have this desperate need to have a gym membership. For some reason, I believe that just having it will make a miracle happen. I really do think that last year I visited the gym the same amount of time I have THIS year. That’s sad! And yet still, I wanted to renew my membership. And this time, I told myself (and Ariel), this time, will be different because I AM different. And so along with my friend, Ines, we renewed our memberships. I’ve already wanted to quit a couple of times while I had Ariel over me telling me to keep going. And while I tell him that I can’t do it, that I’m scared, that I didn’t know my body had become so weak, that I never really dropped as much sweat as I have during these past couple of days–he looks at me and I swear he wants to yell at me and I just want to cry, but he doesn’t. And I keep on going because I know that I’m going to get stronger and I’ll be able to finally sleep at night and wake up energized and eat those burgers I lov–what? Nevermind. This time is different. This week has been good and I have been toughing it out (see here) thus far. If we’re Facebook friends, I apologize for all my gym check-ins. Its how I plan to stay on track.

Another goal of mine is to make it a habit to create. I found this quote on Pinterest and thought it was perfect for motivation: “Go into the arts. I’m not kidding. The arts are not a way to make a living. They are a very human way of making life more bearable. Practicing an art, no matter how well or badly, is a way to make your soul grow, for heaven’s sake. Sing in the shower. dance to the radio. Tell stories. Write a poem to a friend, even a lousy poem. Do it as well as you possibly can. You will get an enormous reward. You will have created something– Kurt Vonnegut.

I’m really glad I joined Pinterest way back when. I feel creative just looking at all the DIY projects there. The point is, of course, to actually create something. So this week I chose one of the projects I’ve pinned from my Crafty Crafty board.  Since I removed my chalkboard wall I don’t have a place to scribble on. I wanted something to write my weekly dinners and found this really cute idea. And here’s what I came up with:

I just used a frame I had from Ikea and printed on a pretty paper I cut to fit the frame. Super easy and I love how pretty it looks in my kitchen. I feel all crafty-licious!:)

Another thing happening this week is my birthday! This one is my real birthday, though I have to wait until the 15th as per my Dominican birth certificate for it to be true. Oh I love how crazy that is. Tomorrow I turn 28 and Im quite excited. I found this really cool idea inspired by this pretty lady and thought to be brilliant. 28 Before 29. 28 goals to accomplish before my 29th birthday.

I want to achieve them all by my next birthday! And, I actually completed one. In this list I have to get a tattoo and earlier this week I got one done on my right wrist. I got a small anchor and its so cute and tiny, like a token symbolizing something personal in my life. So glad I went for it.

So, this is it for now. Happy Three Kings Day! Happy Birthday to me tomorrow! And may you all have an amazing weekend!

xoxoxo – Julia

Loren & Massimo are engaged! This is how happy they are…

All I needed was the love you gave

All I needed for another day

and all I ever knew

Only You ”

This is my beautiful cousin Loren and her handsome fiance, Massimo. Truly an adorable couple. I am so excited for their new journey and super thankful that they let me photograph their happiness on a gorgeous Fall day. Love you both!

I’m a bit obsessed with the cover Only You by Joshua Radin today. Can’t stop singing the above linked lyrics…

Happy Tuesday –xoxox Julia

Welcome 2012

I like the feeling of new. I like the feeling of new beginnings… the idea that great opportunities  are awaiting to be discovered. The feeling that one can always start fresh and dream bigger dreams. Twenty Twelve already feels like that and I am filled with joy because I have been granted another year to live and create and love and grow into the person I am destined to be.

On December 31st, during the day, if you had taken a peek into how I was feeling inside you would have told me I needed some serious help. I felt terribly sorry for myself, for everything that I wasn’t able to achieve this year. I failed spectacularly at the majority of my 2011 resolutions. I resolved to ride a bike and I did not. I resolved to live more fearlessly and I am afraid I lived in more fear than I ever had. I resolved to grow my business and somehow I let it stand still. I resolved to be more creative and take more personal photography projects and I compared myself to others instead. I was focusing solely on the negatives and forgot to think and be thankful for the blessings I did receive, which were many and great ones. I’m stopping this pessimism this year once and for all.

I am looking forward to each day of this year, especially to make sure that each one is lived fruitfully. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

We Had Ourselves a Merry Little Christmas Time

This year’s Christmas has been very special to me. Sometimes it is hard to get into the spirit of the Holiday, especially if there has been difficult moments during the year. But trying a little harder and pushing oneself to see the beauty of life… Well, life just starts looking a lot better. I know this to be true. We started our Christmas Eve with a little dinner with my family. Then, headed over to Ariel’s family for more dinner and celebration. I even brought a little special gift…

Banana Pudding

We took the subway to Ariel’s family where we danced the night away… which was exactly what I needed after all the food I ate. Although, I did go back every so often to pick on the left over Pernil seating in the oven. I couldn’t help it!  I’m writing it down for 2012 resolution: I must learn how to cook a mean Pernil.

What I will remember the most for this year’s Christmas is all the dancing I did. I love dancing! Have I mention that before? Ariel’s family loves to dance too, mainly his mom who made it very clear to me where Ariel gets all his energy from. That lady can dance! And both Christmas Eve and Christmas day was all dancing and dancing and dancing. I loved it! I don’t have any pictures of the dancing… and well, some things should not be photographed… especially if someone had one too many Malibu with pineapple juice and was shaking it like no one was watching.

Christmas morning we had a lovely brunch in Greenpoint at Lokal. A really cute place I really like. We talked about our future and I’m truly excited and optimistic about this upcoming year. We have received so many blessings as well as some bumps in the roads this year… but we’re going to keep on going with our heads high, enjoying our lives together, continuing building memories, doing what we love.

I hope everyone had a lovely Christmas time!

xoxo Julia

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